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In the Garden of Life, roses stand as timeless symbols of beauty and resilience. Their delicate petals unfurl amidst sharp thorns, a poignant reminder that growth often accompanies adversity. Similarly, our journey through life is marked by challenges and traumas, yet within those struggles lies the opportunity for resilience and growth.

At the heart of this analogy lies the power of sharing our experiences, both joyful and painful. Just as roses flourish in well-tended gardens, we too can thrive in environments that offer safety and understanding. That’s where my blog and practice come in—to provide a sanctuary for individuals seeking solace and connection amidst life's thorns.

I also create a safe space, where you can share the full spectrum of your humanity—your joys, pains, questions, and prayers. Here, vulnerability is not a weakness but a source of strength. It’s a place where your stories are honoured, your struggles acknowledged, and your journey validated.

Like a gardener nurturing tender buds, I am here to cultivate an atmosphere of warmth and support. Together, we tend to the soil of our souls, fostering growth and healing. Just as roses draw nourishment from the earth, we draw strength from one another, intertwining our roots to form a resilient community.

In this garden of shared experiences, you are not alone. Here, amidst the blooms and thorns, you will find companionship, understanding, and hope. Together, we embrace the complexities of life, finding beauty even amid adversity.

So, let us walk this path together, knowing that amidst life's challenges, there is always room to bloom. Together, we can transform pain into resilience, darkness into light, and thorns into roses. Welcome to a space where your story is not just heard but cherished—a sanctuary where you can bloom, unapologetically, amidst the thorns.

Blessings

Dr Barbara Louw

Personal Counselling Appointments: In-person andOnline.

Hope is real, even in the presence of pain and uncertainty.

Amid daunting medical diagnoses, hope stands resolute, a beacon amid the storm. Though pain may linger, and uncertainty loom large, it's vital to grasp the glimmer of hope. It's a resilient force, reminding us of the possibility beyond the present struggle, and guiding us toward brighter days ahead.

So, let us walk this path together, knowing that amidst life's challenges, there is always room to bloom. Together, we can transform pain into resilience, darkness into light, and thorns into roses. Welcome to a space where your story is not just heard but cherished—a sanctuary where you can bloom, unapologetically, amidst the thorns.

Blessings

Dr Barbara Louw

Do you feel you need to talk to someone outside your home? Book a personal counselling session online or in person in Pretoria.

"I am not broken; I am recovering."

There's nothing quite as uplifting and beautiful as witnessing someone rediscover themselves. A medical diagnosis or procedure can leave you feeling utterly shattered and lost. The emotions are raw, and the challenges seem insurmountable. Coping with the news, medical uncertainties, symptoms, medication side effects, and invasive intrusions into your personal space—it's a heavy burden to bear.

Yet, amidst it all, you still have a choice. You can choose to tenderly nurture your heart. Yes, now is the time to establish healthy boundaries, allowing yourself the space to find balance and heal. Recovery is about prioritizing your well-being, one moment at a time. It's a gradual journey, filled with small steps and daily commitments until you find the strength to extend that care into each passing hour, each new day.

On those tough days, remember, the sun will rise again tomorrow. If I could, I'd gift you sunshine and stardust to brighten your path. For now, I'll offer my prayers—prayers for your renewed wholeness and wellness as you navigate this season of vulnerability and fragility.

You are not broken; you are brave. Stronger than you ever imagined. 

We are Breakthrough Champions - Empowering your journey - Celebrating your victory!

Blessings

Dr Barbara Louw

Personal Counselling Appointments: In-person andOnline.

In My Rose Garden is an uplifting blog to encourage and inspire people who have gone through serious medical procedures, such as amputation, mastectomy or lumpectomy, and life-changing diagnoses, such as cancer or strokes. They are on the way to recovery but the road ahead is uncertain and scary.

Supporting A Loved One 101

Sometimes silence is welcome.

The trauma of an adverse medical diagnosis such as cancer brings an awkward wordlessness because it feels like there are no words to describe what happened. There are not enough words to describe what is on in one’s mind, emotions or body. In a single moment, life changes forever. It feels like the world stopped turning.

Words like life, change and health have new meanings or no known meaning at all. The numbness and feeling overwhelmed last longer than anyone could ever imagine. It can last days, weeks or months. They become unwelcome companions that come and go all the time. Every time they come back, they bring more huge emotions like anxiety, fear, anger and frustration.

Silence is welcome because sometimes you need to sit with your loved one in silence. It is the best way to be with them, so they are not alone in their quest to find words. You don’t have to have all the answers. Old clichés will only enhance feelings of shame, fear and guilt. You don’t need to fill the quietness with empty words or silly jokes. Your silent prayer is the most powerful gift you can bring to the situation.

Blessings

Dr Barbara Louw

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